Author: Jeff Murrah
The Danger of Accusations
In reading letters from spouses, a common issue expressed concerns accusations of affairs. One central thing is true. Accusations, especially about affairs damage relationships. I considered what makes accusations
Lawyer Tricks and Affairs
One of the things I hate is ‘lawyer tricks’. Being a therapist, I am sensitive to being manipulated and helping others change. One reason I hate lawyer tricks is
The Affair Stigma
As I was about to leave home on an errand, my wife looked at me and asked “Are you going out with THAT shirt on?” I’ve learned from experience
Two Uncomfortable Truths about Affairs
Uncomfortable truths are hard to hear. Even though they’re true, it doesn’t make them easier to accept. One of those hard truths about affairs is that except for close
The Rooster Gives Himself Away
There’s a saying in Jamaica of ‘Cock mout kill cock‘. The saying means that the crowing of the rooster (cock mouth) brings attention to himself which makes it easier
Contraceptives and Choices in Lovers
From the emails I receive, I know that some of you wonder if your spouse ‘lost their mind‘ when they cheated. The sudden change in their thinking and behavior
Mind Control Beams and Lovers
When I was a child, there were times when all it took was a look or a signal from my parent’s eye to make me change what I was
Dealing with a Pathological Liar
A few moments ago I finished reading a rant from a betrayed wife about the audacity of pathological liars. Her rant started me thinking about dealing with pathological liars.
Limerence and Numbness
Last night, one of my sons and I discussed ways of diagramming out ideas of interest to us. When I diagram out ideas, it gives me better insights into
Your Emotional Meltdown Playlist
Years ago, my brother Tim made me a cassette tape and gave it to me on my birthday. He entitled in ‘Music Even a 30-Year Old Can Listen To’.
